Getting Adjusted

I think there comes a time in every military family's move overseas that they question "Why did I move here?" Or rather anyone who moves overseas from living in the States sometime prior. Things get difficult, there are new rules, new laws and everything feels chaotic. Some days it's feels like the new country is against you & Murphys Law moved into your new home with you. On the other hand, other days things fall I to place and you feel comfortable or excited again about living in this new place you will call home for the next few years! 

This is our second overseas base, were two for two so far. We moved from Okinawa Japan to Germany. No visit home in between either. The challenge of taking a pet from one country to another didn't need any added obstacles. From one overseas base to another it can be both easy and also very difficult to transition to a new location.

 

Overall the travel with a pet was exhausting and stressful. The move and settling in requires a ton of patience and a positive attitude. You have to remind yourself on the tough days that things will fall into place! Because eventually... They do! 

Your pet will adjust. Jet lag is temporary. Your stuff will get unpacked. You will find a car.  Driving on the other side of the road gets easier. You will find a job or hobby or volunteer work that you enjoy. Your husband will fall into place at his new squadron and learn the new rules or regs. You may not necessarily learn the language but you will figure out their traditions, culture and grocery stores. 

Living in another country is something that requires time and patience. Don't give up when you're trying to figure things out or are looking for a job. It can take awhile! Ask questions when you don't know what you're doing, you'd be surprised how many are willing to help out! Get out and explore, meet people and don't be afraid to talk to strangers!

Embrace the challenge and enjoy the time, it is once in a lifetime!